1.) Live too much in your own "little world"
2.) Have no interest in learning new things
3.) Say NO all the time
4.) Have a bunch of arbitrary rules
5.) Get in your child's way
6.) Compare your child's learning to school peers and the public education model
7.) Say not now, I am busy too often
8.) Don't take advantage of opportunities as they present themselves
9.) Let fear dictate your decisions
10.) Criticize the child
11.) Devalue the learning in activities the child chooses to do
12.) Try to fit the child into the mold you have in your image for them
13.) Do not interact, play with or have conversations with your child
14.) Ignore the child much of the time
15.) Do not bring new and interesting things into the house
16.) Do not seek out new experiences
17.) Focus on the future of where your child may go rather than focus on the moment
18.) Do not celebrate the child for who they are in their authentic form
19.) Panic and throw textbooks and worksheets in front of them
20.) Do not facilitate a learning environment or fun activities
2.) Have no interest in learning new things
3.) Say NO all the time
4.) Have a bunch of arbitrary rules
5.) Get in your child's way
6.) Compare your child's learning to school peers and the public education model
7.) Say not now, I am busy too often
8.) Don't take advantage of opportunities as they present themselves
9.) Let fear dictate your decisions
10.) Criticize the child
11.) Devalue the learning in activities the child chooses to do
12.) Try to fit the child into the mold you have in your image for them
13.) Do not interact, play with or have conversations with your child
14.) Ignore the child much of the time
15.) Do not bring new and interesting things into the house
16.) Do not seek out new experiences
17.) Focus on the future of where your child may go rather than focus on the moment
18.) Do not celebrate the child for who they are in their authentic form
19.) Panic and throw textbooks and worksheets in front of them
20.) Do not facilitate a learning environment or fun activities
I like your list, it's quite accurate. I have to admit, I did #19 a few times. Lol
ReplyDeleteBut my unschooled kids are pretty much grown now, so they survived me!